Financial Decision-Making Best Practices

Gather Complete Financial Information

  • Bank statements (6-12 months history)

  • Investment account statements

  • RRSP and pension statements

  • Property valuations (appraisals for real estate)

  • Business valuations if applicable

  • Credit report and debt statements

  • Tax returns (2-3 years)

Calculate Your Net Family Property

Use the formula: (All Assets - All Debts) as of separation date. Create a comprehensive inventory with values and dates of acquisition

Seek Professional Valuations

  • Real estate appraisals (do not rely on tax assessment)

  • Business valuations (if self-employed)

  • Pension benefit valuations

  • Specialized assets (antiques, collections, artwork)

Understand Tax Implications

  • RRSP/RRIF divisions must use prescribed transfer methods (tax-free)

  • Principal residence exemption for matrimonial home

  • Capital gains tax on investment sales

  • Spousal support is tax-deductible for payer (federal/provincial)

  • Child support is NOT tax-deductible

  • Consult accountant or tax advisor

Plan Your Fresh Start Budget

Project your post-separation monthly expenses. Separate accounts and credit are crucial. Plan for independence.

Property Division Best Practices

Source: Ontario Family Law Act, Ontario Real Estate Association - Property Valuation Guidelines

For Matrimonial Home:

  • Get Professional Appraisal: Don't guess at value; formal appraisal is essential

  • Obtain Mortgage Statement: Know exact outstanding amount and current rate

  • Get Seller's Estimate (if selling): Realtor provides estimated net proceeds

  • Understand Tax Status: Principal residence exemption should apply to matrimonial home

  • Decide Timing Carefully: Market conditions affect value and decision timing

  • Consider Refinancing: If buy-out option, ensure you can qualify for mortgage

For RRSPs:

  • Obtain RRSP Statements: Get current valuations

  • Use Prescribed Transfer Method: Avoid tax consequences through proper legal transfer

  • Coordinate with Property Settlement: RRSP transfer may reduce other property owed

  • Consider Retirement Needs: Don't deplete retirement savings to equalize

  • Time Transfer Properly: Transfer should occur post-separation to maintain tax benefits

For Investments & Savings:

  • Maintain position stability during litigation (don't liquidate or move assets)

  • Obtain valuations as of separation date

  • Document cost basis for capital gains calculations

  • Consider tax-efficient division (e.g., don't give tax-heavy stocks to one party)

Support Agreement Best Practices

Source: Federal Child Support Guidelines, Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines

For Child Support:

  • Confirm Income: Use Notice of Assessment (NOA) as basis for income

  • Include All Income: Self-employment, investment income, benefits

  • Review Guideline Tables: Start with table amount; adjust only if there are special circumstances

  • Document Extraordinary Expenses: Childcare, medical, education, activities

  • Build in Adjustment Clauses: Include provision to adjust if income changes materially

  • Review Regularly: Review support annually or when circumstances change

For Spousal Support:

  • Use SSAG as Framework: Follow guidelines even though courts have discretion

  • Consider Duration: Don't default to permanent; use guidelines-based duration

  • Build in Review Clause: Include review date rather than indefinite support

  • Address Termination Events: Specify what happens if recipient remarries, cohabits, or reaches retirement

  • Document Rationale: Explain why amount differs from guidelines if it does

Legal Review Best Practices

  • Both parties obtain independent legal review: Each party should have their own lawyer review the agreement

  • Ensure full disclosure: All assets, debts, and income must be fully disclosed before signing

  • Verify fairness: Lawyer should confirm agreement doesn't unfairly disadvantage their client

  • Understand implications: Ensure client understands long-term consequences of agreement

  • Document waiver of rights: If any issue not addressed, ensure parties understand they're waiving those claims

Source: Law Society of Upper Canada - Family Law Practice Standards, CanLII - Ontario Legal Database

Red Flags to Avoid:

  • Signing agreements under duress or without legal advice

  • Incomplete financial disclosure

  • Agreements that don't follow guideline-based support (unless carefully reasoned)

  • Putting assets in children's names to hide from division

  • Transferring assets before separation to avoid division

  • Relying on informal promises instead of written agreements

  • Not updating RRSP/insurance beneficiaries after separation

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Last Updated: December 2025 | Provided by: Clearpoint Mediation