Financial Decision-Making Best Practices
Gather Complete Financial Information
Bank statements (6-12 months history)
Investment account statements
RRSP and pension statements
Property valuations (appraisals for real estate)
Business valuations if applicable
Credit report and debt statements
Tax returns (2-3 years)
Calculate Your Net Family Property
Use the formula: (All Assets - All Debts) as of separation date. Create a comprehensive inventory with values and dates of acquisition
Seek Professional Valuations
Real estate appraisals (do not rely on tax assessment)
Business valuations (if self-employed)
Pension benefit valuations
Specialized assets (antiques, collections, artwork)
Understand Tax Implications
RRSP/RRIF divisions must use prescribed transfer methods (tax-free)
Principal residence exemption for matrimonial home
Capital gains tax on investment sales
Spousal support is tax-deductible for payer (federal/provincial)
Child support is NOT tax-deductible
Consult accountant or tax advisor
Plan Your Fresh Start Budget
Project your post-separation monthly expenses. Separate accounts and credit are crucial. Plan for independence.
Property Division Best Practices
Source: Ontario Family Law Act, Ontario Real Estate Association - Property Valuation Guidelines
For Matrimonial Home:
Get Professional Appraisal: Don't guess at value; formal appraisal is essential
Obtain Mortgage Statement: Know exact outstanding amount and current rate
Get Seller's Estimate (if selling): Realtor provides estimated net proceeds
Understand Tax Status: Principal residence exemption should apply to matrimonial home
Decide Timing Carefully: Market conditions affect value and decision timing
Consider Refinancing: If buy-out option, ensure you can qualify for mortgage
For RRSPs:
Obtain RRSP Statements: Get current valuations
Use Prescribed Transfer Method: Avoid tax consequences through proper legal transfer
Coordinate with Property Settlement: RRSP transfer may reduce other property owed
Consider Retirement Needs: Don't deplete retirement savings to equalize
Time Transfer Properly: Transfer should occur post-separation to maintain tax benefits
For Investments & Savings:
Maintain position stability during litigation (don't liquidate or move assets)
Obtain valuations as of separation date
Document cost basis for capital gains calculations
Consider tax-efficient division (e.g., don't give tax-heavy stocks to one party)
Support Agreement Best Practices
Source: Federal Child Support Guidelines, Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines
For Child Support:
Confirm Income: Use Notice of Assessment (NOA) as basis for income
Include All Income: Self-employment, investment income, benefits
Review Guideline Tables: Start with table amount; adjust only if there are special circumstances
Document Extraordinary Expenses: Childcare, medical, education, activities
Build in Adjustment Clauses: Include provision to adjust if income changes materially
Review Regularly: Review support annually or when circumstances change
For Spousal Support:
Use SSAG as Framework: Follow guidelines even though courts have discretion
Consider Duration: Don't default to permanent; use guidelines-based duration
Build in Review Clause: Include review date rather than indefinite support
Address Termination Events: Specify what happens if recipient remarries, cohabits, or reaches retirement
Document Rationale: Explain why amount differs from guidelines if it does
Legal Review Best Practices
Both parties obtain independent legal review: Each party should have their own lawyer review the agreement
Ensure full disclosure: All assets, debts, and income must be fully disclosed before signing
Verify fairness: Lawyer should confirm agreement doesn't unfairly disadvantage their client
Understand implications: Ensure client understands long-term consequences of agreement
Document waiver of rights: If any issue not addressed, ensure parties understand they're waiving those claims
Source: Law Society of Upper Canada - Family Law Practice Standards, CanLII - Ontario Legal Database
Red Flags to Avoid:
Signing agreements under duress or without legal advice
Incomplete financial disclosure
Agreements that don't follow guideline-based support (unless carefully reasoned)
Putting assets in children's names to hide from division
Transferring assets before separation to avoid division
Relying on informal promises instead of written agreements
Not updating RRSP/insurance beneficiaries after separation
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